will i always be single!?!?

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this really sucks, i dont know why i cant just be super confident like most other guys when it comes to finding a girl. i just dont know what to say, i had alot of chances to find a girl on new years, my friends kept saying go find a girl and telling me who to talk to and i kept saying,"nah im good, i will after i have a few beers". i know i am not bad looking, i am actually better looking than some of my friends, yet they still have more confidence than me. i have had experiences with relationships and connecting really good with females, all of my relationships last around 1 or 2 yrs. All of my relationships have started because the girls pretty much where the ones to talk to me and say hey i like you. i was heavy when i was younger in junior high and got teased a little not alot, but was scared to talk to girls and got turned down a couple times. but now that i am older and look good something still holds me back. WAY TOO SHY! feel like im never gunna meet that girl, and its not gunna be because she wouldnt like me, it gunna be because i didnt have to balls to say anything or throw myself out there.... idk

 
By E.howard on Tue, 01-03-12, 08:58

I think you probably have that same mindset like you had in junior high when you were heavier. You probably didn't feel good about yourself then and feel the same now. It did something to your self-esteem. I also think you don't want to be rejected. That stops a lot of us trying for anything. I know. It doesn't matter what you look like. If you don't have that confidence about you and put your self out there,you wont get noticed. I know it's hard to garner confidence in ones self. I struggle with it myself. Keep trying!

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By Cat1184 on Wed, 01-04-12, 13:05

If you don't try and put yourself out there, how will you ever know that the girl right in front of you could be the girl of your dreams? Just try to be yourself! A big problem is when people try to pretend to be someone they are not! If it's the right girl, she will love and accept you just the way you are! We all go through life not wanting to make mistakes, not to look like a fool, not to embarrass ourself, but in reality we are all not perfect nor will we ever be perfect, so just go for it!!

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By puerto rican princess on Wed, 02-22-12, 21:32

i also agree with that single myself dealt with an abusive relaionship two years ago and just broke down im shy have anxiety panic attacks i;m sexy and i know it but why am i still alone? just don't understand im beatiful wonderful personality caring and sweet always wind up getting my heart broken @ justin things will take a turn for the better im here for you puerto rican princess

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By puerto rican princess on Wed, 02-22-12, 21:33

@ justin im here for you message me please puerto rican princess

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By bingomonkey on Thu, 02-23-12, 17:54

I feel the sameway U do. I don't feel like I can find the right guy. I was in a controlling relationship for a year off Nd on. It sucks. I feel like I will be alone the rest of mylife. Ifyou want to talk I am here for you bingomonkey

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By puerto rican princess on Thu, 02-23-12, 20:15

thanks so much i really appriate that and yes i really do feel like i will be alone for the rest of my life i just hate it think i will continue to go threw the same thing over and over it's not easy feeling alone in this .....

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